I'm curious as well. I live in Concord, NC. I haven't been to an AME here in NC yet, so I, as well as you, really don't know who to go to that is worth the time and money. I have an appointment with Dr. Nicholson. He does only aviation medical exams, and he's located at KJQF. The appointment is set for Nov 26.
Hey doc, do you advise asking questions before the appointment about the way he practices, etc...? I can tell you one thing though, he's got his PPL and Instrument rating, so by just assuming, I figure he knows a little more about aviation than the standard IM physician who knows nothing about aviation, but is a designated AME on the side. I will let you know more about Dr. Nicholson after the exam.