I'm not an "Airbus guy", but can tell you that the "normal law" essentially sets a rate. I do not know if what you say is correct, but can say that things are added into the system to make you do things that you would otherwise not have to do in a FBW aircraft, but they are added to make it fly more like it's not FBW. The basic control law for the Airbus is the same as for Boeing, C*, with the Boeing adding in a U interface which artificially makes it so you have to trim the aircraft. Obviously, there is no reason that a pilot should have to trim in a FBW system, so they do that only to make it seem like a conventionally controlled aircraft. I would guess that the above is similar, forcing you to hold back pressure that would otherwise not be required. Again, I do not know that they added this feature you describe, but can think of reasons why you would do it.