Boris Badenov
Fortis Leader
First off, this will insufferably preachy. If you can't hang, don't feel any obilgation, just hit "back". I would have thrown things at myself when I was your age, too. Second, it's meant to be an "add-on" thread. I'll say some insufferably preachy things, and then, with any luck, some others will do the same. With the boilerplate laid down:
1) You will always have to make political decisions, however minor they might be. Do not allow these political decisions to become yourself or your reputation. Whatever you think of who you're dealing with, they're a human being who has likely been through at least as much bad stuff as you have.
2) Whatever you think you know, you actually know way, way less than that.
3) If you're afraid in an airplane, stop doing whatever you're doing. Right now. Revisit later.
4) Maintain a healthy disrespect for the Conventional Wisdom, but never go against it just to show that you can. There's a difference between "free-thinking" and "being a self-impressed jerk", but it's a thin difference.
5) However mad you are about someone else's opinion, no matter how asinine it might be, take a step back and consider what's useful about that opinion. As in "OK, clearly it's dumb to say that VFR pilots should only fly in 5 knot crosswinds and CAVU days...but...why would someone say that?" There is always a reason, and there's always a perspective to hear.
6) Whoever is your Personal Boogeyman...they have pretty much the same biology that you do. They didn't drop out of the sky unbidden to make your life worse. For some, it's GoJet F/Os or RiddleAces. For others, it's Crusty A-holes failing to retire so you can move up. Regardless, they're a lot more like you than you think they are.
7) Don't fly in to the red. It's bad for you. Trust me on this one. It never gets any better.
I look forward to this thread turning in to a raging conflagration of various interested parties zinging each other on perceived slights. Because that's what will probably happen. But that's not what it's about, FYI.
Ok, Game on.
1) You will always have to make political decisions, however minor they might be. Do not allow these political decisions to become yourself or your reputation. Whatever you think of who you're dealing with, they're a human being who has likely been through at least as much bad stuff as you have.
2) Whatever you think you know, you actually know way, way less than that.
3) If you're afraid in an airplane, stop doing whatever you're doing. Right now. Revisit later.
4) Maintain a healthy disrespect for the Conventional Wisdom, but never go against it just to show that you can. There's a difference between "free-thinking" and "being a self-impressed jerk", but it's a thin difference.
5) However mad you are about someone else's opinion, no matter how asinine it might be, take a step back and consider what's useful about that opinion. As in "OK, clearly it's dumb to say that VFR pilots should only fly in 5 knot crosswinds and CAVU days...but...why would someone say that?" There is always a reason, and there's always a perspective to hear.
6) Whoever is your Personal Boogeyman...they have pretty much the same biology that you do. They didn't drop out of the sky unbidden to make your life worse. For some, it's GoJet F/Os or RiddleAces. For others, it's Crusty A-holes failing to retire so you can move up. Regardless, they're a lot more like you than you think they are.
7) Don't fly in to the red. It's bad for you. Trust me on this one. It never gets any better.
I look forward to this thread turning in to a raging conflagration of various interested parties zinging each other on perceived slights. Because that's what will probably happen. But that's not what it's about, FYI.
Ok, Game on.