Oh you mean the wife who works three jobs to support her pilot husband who has huge school loans and who used her tax refund to pay for special medical testing for him. It revealed a need for a 4 month loa (no disability insurance) and a highly restricted diet. He just returned to work and she spent days preparing special foods for him during breaks from her three jobs.
Perhaps you refer to to wife of a Delta CA who is in stage 4 cancer while he is having affairs. He keeps telling her he's cutting her off health insurance and throwing her and their 17 year old daughter out so she can die faster.
Or perhaps the wife of a United whale pilot who discovered that his 26 year old daughter (that she cares for as if she was her natural daughter along with his 15 year old who is a paraplegic) is a heroin addict. She has spent over a week, taking off from work, trying to get her treatment while the pilot is on a trip and wonders why the daughter can't just drive herself to therapy.
There are many more examples of what gets shared on the boards by some incredibly strong and talented women who fight everyday to maintain a stabile and happy home. But I am tired and have to call my almost (because no one is) perfect husband who left the house at 4AM for a hard three day trip.