HI! I'm currently a student at the school.
I've been there since last October, and I came in at about the same level. I had about 60 hours or so on a 10 year old private license.
People here are anywhere from 20 - 50 years old! I've 31 years old, married, and decided to make a career change. My Finance Company (DAD) and I visited several schools in the area (Comair, Gulfstream Academy, Pan Am), and decided that Flightsafety appeared to have the best overall program. It's not perfect, but it seemed to be the best for me and my situation.
If you're considering spending $25-50,000 to become a professional pilot, I think it's worthwhile to to spend $500 to fly down, rent a car, and check out several places.
Your situation could be different, your priorities may be different, so the best choice for you may be different. I would recommend checking out the school in person. The marketing department has a few "professionals", but students who are working part time usually give the tours and answer questions with a minimal amount of BS. Really, they don't have a stake or commission involved in convincing you to come here. The fact is that lots of people are coming here because it is a good program. By the way, I have no stake in you coming here either, I just know how straining it is to make a good decision without all of the facts.
Housing is available on campus, but most U.S students get an apartment or house off campus. IF you bring your girlfriend, you'd definately have to rent somewhere off campus, and you'd find lots of options. I guess it gets to be cheaper in the summer when a lot of the older folks go back north.
About Instructing... I'm planning to become one here, hopefully by the end of June.
They pay $14 per hour, plus health insurance. If you sign a contract to instruct for 800 hours of FLIGHT time, they'll pay the costs for your CFII and MEI.
Most of their instrument training is conducted in the twin engine. This gives you more twin time, but make no mistake about it, you pay for it! $229 per hour (dual). You also spend a fair amount of time in a Frasca simulator. They are touchy, and some people refer to them as the "penalty box". However, they do let you repeat approaches without having to wait for ATC clearance and vectors back around.
Here's what I did, and you could do if you came in this summer without flying a significant amount of hours in between. I started with the commercial ground school. Near the end of that course, I came in and spent about 5 flights with instructors to learn the FlightSafety way of doing things. Then I started the "time building step" where you do a few cross countries dual, a lot of cross countries solo, and several dual lessons to practice commercial manuevers. Then I did "step three" and earned my private multiengine rating. It took me two weeks to do that, flying once a day. Now I'm on "step four", where I'm refining my instrument skills and working towards my instrument rating. "Step five" is where it all comes together and you earn your Commercial Instrument Multi Engine rating.
I started on October 2nd, and am pretty confident that I'll be done by the first or second week of March. That comes after flying 5 or 6 days a week, scheduling aggressively, and pushing my instructors a little.
Really, so much depends on your situation.
Good Luck
Mike