IMPO, I don't think flying is inherently dangerous. But when things go wrong, the usually go wrong in a big way. The only way around it, is to not fly at all. Constantly drilling to get emergency procedures in your head is the only recourse you have of preventing things. But the most important thing to remember is that accidents, whether fatal or not, are almost always a chain of events, not just one event. So if you nip weak links in the bud early on, the only thing you'll have to fear is your own stupidity. Stay away from stupid, and you won't have a problem.
Just as an aside, and hopefully something to rest your angst, there have been a few accidents lately that have been fairly close to me, as in either people I knew, or knew of. The only ones that were fatal were performing low level aerobatics either in competition or practicing for a competition. The others, everyone has walked away with only a scratch, and a bruised ego. Read through these threads and you'll find a few engine failures, some people running out of fuel, and smoke in the cockpit issues where EVERYONE walked away. I never understood what "always look for a landing site" meant until I started reading these threads. So every so often, depending on certain factors, I look for somewhere to put down if things go to hell.
Flying itself is not dangerous, especially if your always prepared for the poo hitting the fan. Eventually it probably will, and if you have a good instructor, you'll be prepared.
Just as an aside, and hopefully something to rest your angst, there have been a few accidents lately that have been fairly close to me, as in either people I knew, or knew of. The only ones that were fatal were performing low level aerobatics either in competition or practicing for a competition. The others, everyone has walked away with only a scratch, and a bruised ego. Read through these threads and you'll find a few engine failures, some people running out of fuel, and smoke in the cockpit issues where EVERYONE walked away. I never understood what "always look for a landing site" meant until I started reading these threads. So every so often, depending on certain factors, I look for somewhere to put down if things go to hell.
Flying itself is not dangerous, especially if your always prepared for the poo hitting the fan. Eventually it probably will, and if you have a good instructor, you'll be prepared.