nosehair
Well-Known Member
I was so disconcentrated today by his pen tapping and looking at the clock that I just couldn't teach like I always do. I asked him if he was ok. He asked friendly, "why do you ask?" and I told him I could see his anxiety. He said, "oooh no, I'm not anxious at all! Let's keep going" So I continued, but I couldn't concentrate on the lesson anymore. I was more concentrated on his boredom.
OK, Sir, here is where you are dropping the ball.
YOU ARE AN INSTRUCTOR. ALREADY. You don't need anyone to teach you to be an instructor. Sure, you need to get experienced at it, and here is your chance. Treat this behavior exactly like a real student. When you have a student who is giving you the body language of being bored or not paying attention, it is your job to correct that.
That may be his objective. Maybe not, but it is your job to find that out.
Focus on his inability to stay with you in the briefings, and if you can't fix the problem, then you go to the Chief Instructor with your "problem student". Maybe he is to much for you to handle. But learn to take the lesson from a bad instructor the same as you will encounter with bad students.
Really, you are an instructor. You only need a "body" to practice teaching specific instrument skills. A young newbe is good for that.