Just a little battle I'm having with my 18 year-old nephew who's a smart kid, has the resources, but is taking "a few semesters off to work at Pizza Hut and hang out with his unmarried 22 year old friend with two kids".
Out of the people that "took a break" after high school before attending college, very few actually went back.
Not that it's impossible because it isn't, but a lot more improbable than many realize.
Wow, that doesn't sound like a very good career plan. And I was very nearly in the "never go back club."
My plan was like this out of HS:
ME: I want to go to Riddle to become an airline pilot.
Parents: No, it's too expensive and only military pilots become airline pilots. (was too dumb and agreeable to question my parents back then)
ME: Ok, I want to go to school X because they want me to play Football for them.
Parents: No, football is not a reason to go to a particular school.
ME: Ok, well I don't know where else to go. How about I go to the State school at the local campus because it's much too late to be considered for the Main campus.
Parents: OK.
After 1 whole year of not wanting to be at State School local campus.....I had a choice: quit or be kicked out. I think I was sporting a whopping 1.4 after the year. I wasn't doing my work....wasn't going to class....wasn't doing very well....DUH
ME: Quit school and joined the Marine Corps Reserves. After completing my required active duty, I worked as a ski instructor in the winter and a landscaper the rest of the year. Realizing this was not the way I wanted my life to go, I did finally go back to the same State school I previously quit after a 5 year hiatus. Dug myself out of the poor GPA I earned previously because the school wouldn't erase my directionless 1st year. Well, finished my undergrad w/ a 3.0 which considering that I was starting at 1.4, 3.0 is pretty damn good. Then, I went on to med. school to complete a graduate program in prosthetics. Worked for a couple years in this field and realized I still wanted to fly after all this time. Actually, I've always known I wanted to fly for the airlines, it's just that I finally said to he!! w/ what my parents think. (For the record, they still thought this was a BAD idea since I had a great career making lots 'o money) Nevertheless, I quit my job, started flight training and the rest is history. I've never looked back and am happy w/ the results......thus far.
So, the moral here is that you can, in fact, go back to school and do well. However, it just takes some more time than others. I beat the odds.....most who "take time off" never go back. My cousin for example.....he was in the top 10% of his HS graduating class......he "took time off" and is still "taking time off." He's now 23 and still washing dishes at a local restaurant. WTFO? When are you going to wake up and get your life on track dude? Well, at least that's what our family is thinking.....LOL
Bottom line: there's still time for him, but w/ each passing day, the odds shift significantly towards the "never going back side."
GO TO COLLEGE.......WHEN I FINALLY APPLIED MYSELF, IT WAS THE BEST TIME OF MY LIFE. MAN I LOVED COLLEGE.....WHAT A BLAST!!!!!