I've been an adult more than three times as long as you have and, in my opinion, you're doing a better job of gaining perspective based on experience and observation than most.
Thank you. I appreciate it. But mostly, like most other adults in the world I’m mostly making it up as I go along.
Realistically, I am (and probably will always remain) a man child. I have views that are iconoclastic (and piss off my in-laws at family dinners) and I mostly chase adventure over stability and a comfortable life (much to the frustration of my wife). I’m largely a dumbass about a great many things, and at best moderately knowledgeable about very little. I have no real perspective on the world, no real insight to give, no knowledge beyond the sum total of my experience - which is decidedly limited.
The few things that I feel I can take away from my life are the things that I have consistently screwed up over the years:
1. Look after future you, but not to the detriment of present you.
2. Enjoy what you’re doing, even when it sucks there’s something to enjoy.
3. Care for people beyond yourself, but don’t put work before yourself or your family. You’ll never wish you spent more time at work.
4. Don’t tolerate or associate with fools or bullies. They’ll rub off on you if you let them.
5. When bad things happen, fly through the crash - you don’t stop fighting until you the motion stops.
with regard to amflight trying to automate their FOs, I really recommend anyone getting into this field have a backup plan for what happens if it all starts to go away. That doesn’t mean make yourself miserable with worry, but rather, I dunno, if you can learn a new skill or otherwise diversify your skill set, do it. You never know when you could be out on the street, make yourself useful, learn to manage, take advantage of every opportunity for personal growth you can handle without impacting other stuff. It’s fun and it makes you a more interesting person.
If it’s drones or robots or old age or health, one day you will lose the ability to do this; what do you want to do next? You gonna play piano in a brothel? Be an architect? Write books? Code? It doesn’t matter, have something “next.” Ideally you should be good enough at it to make money at it - at least until you’ve “made it” in aviation enough to start making real money.
I try to believe that my best years are always in front of me. I worked with a bunch of stodgy retired airline and military dudes. They were all great guys, but they were all focused on the past. Living in their memories like a John Prine song or uncle Rico throwing a football through a tire. I don’t want to be like that. I still enjoy aviation and I truly miss flying, but were it not for the fact that I spent much of my free time (inadvertently) learning other skills I would be screwed right now.
If you’re just getting into this field, know more than just flying. Specialization is for insects, learn as many different skills as you can, and enjoy it - it’s fun, but it’s not the only kind of fun. In the long run it may pay off.