Refueling in the A-10 was always a pain, as at altitude we were struggling to keep our speed up, and the tanker was struggling to not fall out of the sky. If we had room to tobaggan, then no biggie, but if we're hard altitude or at the bottom of our block, well....then it's catch the tanker in the inside of his next turn, and hope to have enough power to push through precontact.
With out A/R port in front of the canopy, as opposed to behind it, there were many times when it seemed like the boomer didn't want to move to plug me, even as I'm sitting about a foot or two from the boom knuckle. A number of times, I've maneuvered in to the boom and self-plugged, which the boom didn't seem to have an issue with. Problem with the front located port was that now I'm staring at the A/R boom. The negative of it is, that I can't see the director lights, or at best can only see one side of them if I bend my head around to look around the boom. The positive of it is I can easily see the colors of the boom shaft to know if I'm drifting too far in/out. Up/down was easy, as all you do is place the G-meter and compass located midpoint on the canopy front bow, place those "behind" the two inboard engines of the tanker, and that takes care of the up/down positioning.
What sucked, was if there was a tanker with a leaky boom knuckle. Whereas if the A/R receptacle was behind me like on the F-117/F-4/F-16, I wouldn't even notice; with it in front of me, all the leaking JP goes all over the front windscreen, blurring anything I'm looking at including the boom, and now making all I can do hold the compass/G-meter references in place, tough enough. On the KC-10, at the end of the boom and facing the receiver, are these two white lights, which I figure are to illuminate the A/R receptacle for night refueling. Again, with the A/R receptacle behind me, no big deal. But a few times, the boomer would turn those on to illuminate the A/R door on the A-10 (if my own illum light was dim or out) and now I have two bright white lights shining in my face about 3 feet in front of me, lol. Always made for good times.
Always loved the KC-10 director lights, bright as heck, marked/labled as to what they were so I didn't have to remember the Don't F Up Again mnemonic, and shows trending information of where I'm moving/drifting to as I'm doing it, rather than just a box of lights changing from this box to the next, and with arrows pointing in the direction of what/how I need to be correcting. And colored from green to yellow to red. All good stuff.