Surfing and the joy of it, is somewhat difficult to explain to others who don't surf. I suppose this has to do with the emotional and metaphysical aspects of this activity. The metaphysical connection in surfing is just something that can't be denied. It's easy to explain the physical elements; that it's incredible exercise, that you are using all of your muscles, toning them, building core strength, endurance and balance. But the lure to the sea and it's effects on your mind, body and soul, not so simple to communicate.
We are drawn to the ocean, and I believe that it is still something very primal lurking deep inside of everyone. It's the visual, the sound, the smell and the feel of the sea and it's vastness and eternal consistency, that envelopes and encompasses you in a feeling of belonging, of being home, of being a part of our nature. Unlike flying, (even in it's more glorious moments) there is nothing man made, artificial or mechanical about the sea.
It's the connection, the ability to read and experience the winds, the currents, the enormous power of the waves, the beauty and the stillness of water, the solitude and yet knowing you are not alone, that you belong. Fishing deep in nature, (fishing far away form other people) holds may of the same truths in that you are connecting to nature and a part of nature that is so much larger than just yourself.
You have the time to think, to feel and just to experience. You have the opportunity to become one with a wave, be with that wave and be a part of it. This is a very unique experience. There is also something very healing about salt water, it has benefits for your sinuses, your skin and for your soul. It's so different than freshwater, it feels, tastes different, it's somehow more alive, invigorating, and while relaxing you- it's astoundingly refreshing.
Surfing, unlike most sports is not about winning anything or conquering something or showing dominance over anything. This is why it doesn't appeal to everyone. It's about connection, it's about being an integral part of something and flowing with that something. In it's purest state, it's very zen like. It is the relaxing and the letting go mentally and emotionally that will bring you into an entirely new state of being, reflection and awareness. It's calming, freeing, soothing, familiar, and most importantly - it's centered. That is the core of surfing...centeredness
Because of all the spiritual and emotional connections, once you are hooked, you can't give it up. You long for it, you crave it and you need it. You dream about it, you remember it in your soul and it becomes of part of your being.
You can empty your mind, you can absorb you surroundings in a way you usually cannot.....without distractions and without silly hindrances. When you are sitting on your board, with the soft swell caressing your legs and gently rocking you, enjoying the sunrise or sunset, the wind on your face, some dolphins at play nearby, (and when you can interact and communicate with them- that is a whole other astounding experience) the smell of the salt and the vegetation, something inside of you just lets go. You give in. You open yourself.
It's pure and it's primal. It's a sense of connection and ethereal beauty that has existed long before man was here and will exist long after we are gone. And when you can make these connections, your ability to read the waters, be in tune with them and be a part of them is what actually improves your ability to surf them well and honorably.
"We're all equal before a wave." Laird Hamilton