Hacker15e
Who am I? Where are my pants?
So why can the Navy guys do it but not the AF?
Just like there can be significant differences in culture and procedure between two different airlines that do the exact same type of flying, likewise there are cultural and regulatory differences between all of the services with respect to this kind of stuff.
Is it possible to have normal hours in a fighter squadron if it was managed right? Guard/Reserve guys don't work as many hours correct?
It isn't the flying itself that makes the days long -- it is the fact that every person who flies the airplane also has at least one full-time "ground" job that they have to also do. Additionally, since the all-volunteer military runs on an "up or out" philosophy (get promoted when it is your timeframe to be promoted, or you have to get out), everyone is scrambling to ensure they're tending to the non-flying job sufficiently to be promotable. Mix in with that the fact that most guys have more than one of these ground jobs, and nearly every one of these guys is a type-A, never-say-I-can't-get-something-done kind of guy, and it makes for a long, long workday every day...and sometimes even on days off (@hook_dupin, Laken-leave?).