I'll throw my two cents in here.....many professional careers require a few if even several years of paying dues, not making the money that you will down the road, paying back student loans, heaven forbid-living on a budget, living in a small apartment and knowing how to live within your means and sticking to that, etc. It won't kill you. It didn't kill any of us. We all managed, a lot of us quite well and we weren't scarred for life and didn't really miss out on much. In fact, looking back....some of the best times of my life were when I didn't have so many "things" to cope/deal with, be responsible for, and my life was far less complicated and far more simple. It was exciting, a challenge and I knew I was on my way to somewhere. Meanwhile, I was getting the valuable experiences that I needed, met some incredible mentors and for the most part, enjoyed myself. It was a win win as far as I am concerned.
You need a certain amount of money to live decently, but you don't need a lot of other "things" and can make do with far less than we tell ourselves we need, that in truth, we just really don't have to have. It's also not forever. Nothing is. It's a small time frame in the grand scheme of your entire life and career. Life is not always about the here and now and immediate gratification.....there is also the future, and opportunities awaiting everyone if they seek them out. Besides, the journey and what you do, see, experience and learn along the way is important and has real value.
There are also many pilots making terrific money and having a great QOL, NOT flying pax for the majors around the US too. That is no longer the end all be all of life and hasn't been for a long time. There is ex-pat work, contract flying, flying freight, firefighting flying, bush flying, law enforcement flying, news/tv flying, ferry work, corporate flying, forestry flying, governmental flying, test flying, starting a flight school, charter flying, a host really of all sorts of opportunities out there is one is willing to work hard, set goals, meet those goals, remain focused, and persevere. Too many people sit on their asses, whine and give up.Then they blame "the profession" because it all didn't happen for them quick enough.
You do the type of flying that makes you happy and satisfied. You then adjust your lifestyle around that, just like in every other profession on the planet.
If flying didn't work out for someone, for whatever reasons, sobeit. But too much bitterness and painting all aviation careers in a negative light isn't really useful for someone who is exploring, really wants to do what makes them happy/content and willing to give it a shot.
I'd much rather regret the the things I have done than the things I haven't done. And from what I can tell, this place is about not only educating/mentoring others, but supporting/helping them, being positive, helping them find solutions and encouraging them.
Many things in life are "risky". BFD. That shouldn't stop you from at least trying. Some people just are not cut out for risk or a new venture in the long term or moving or what ever. If you can't stick with it/stick it out, knowing what is involved ahead of time, best not to bother. Do what you think is safe instead. But the rewards for risk taking, and stepping outside your comfort zone can be wonderful, character building and bring other opportunities to you. The terrific thing in life is that we get the chances for do-overs. We get to make changes and seek what really makes us satisfied. We get to live our passion. It depends on how badly you want it. You either have it in you to make aviation a career or you don't. Attitude is everything. Nobody "does" anything to you. We do it to ourselves. Let's just not let our own failures/misconceptions trample on the dreams of others.