as a former USAF Tower Controller I would not want to be in the shoes of the crew at KIAB tower that night, Military atc ops though similar to Civ atc ops in many ways are a totally different beast and in the eyes of the military they may (depending on the facts ) be held just as culpable as the pilots for this.
Look how the USAF fried ATC local controllers at KPOB for the 1994 midair between the F-16 and the C-130, which resulted in the F-16 hitting the C-141 that was preparing to load troops.
Even though it was the responsibility of the F-16 to clear his flight path during his SFO maneuver, as well as the WX being VMC and clear, where see and avoid applies.