ozziecat35
4 out of 5 great lakes prefer Michigan.
Dood. We're the same age. If you start pushing for it now, you'll have 30+ good years. Moooore than enough, trust me.
So let me broaden what my fellow One Lister is talking about a little bit.
You will die, and soon. It may be tomorrow, it may be 70 years from now, obviously nobody knows.
But I have no intent of living my life where I have to look back and say, "Well...should I have?" So far, I don't have to. Am I saying it's easy? No, but I AM saying it's something I want to do.
So to illustrate this, let me tell two stories. The first one is @Derg's, and the second happened recently.
If I understand the issue properly, and BTW I take this line from Derg, Derg's father died reasonably young, in his 50's or early 60's. His attitude is that you never know when it's going to happen, so live your life as much as you can.
The other story is a friend of mine who recently died in an ice climbing accident. She was living in Utah, where we want to live, living the life we want to live, and pursuing a PhD in water sanitation (public health), helping those that couldn't help themselves. She died young, 30, but she died while LIVING, and it's the life that I want for me, my wife, and my daughter.
HOW you facilitate that is up to you, but don't half ass life, because it never lasts as long as we'd like.
Thanks guys, I guess I should clarify that I don't regret my life thus far, I have a lot to be thankful for. 4 years of good Active Duty Army service, a great, healthy 6 year marriage thus far, an amazing 3 year old daughter who is the smartest thing I've ever seen, and a great, stable IT job working at a national laboratory...I guess my point is that I see the "greener" grass compared to guys my own age. I just wish I would have realized I had a passion for aviation a little earlier in life.
Thanks though for the pep talk, definitely helps me redefine priorities. (No, I don't really need that new 2013 Fusion I've been looking at...my '04 Korean land yacht is just fine.)