Why Choose Aviation? (From a Pilot's "GF")

Chris_Ford said:
Just cling on to him and never let go. Control every facet of his life you can. It what he needs right now, strict control. Pilots love orders. They read checklists and are told by ATC what to do. He thinks he wants an independent girl, but what he really wants is for you to step up and show him how much he NEEDS you.

Go for it girl!!
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Ok Chris....I gotta ask you a question. Is that really you in your profile picture? Cause if it is...what you just wrote is extremely funny!!! I could just see an old white guy saying, "Go for it girl!" with a little finger snap like a black woman would do. Oh man...that's funny.:rotfl:
 
Izzy10 said:
Aside from that though, maybe everyone's right. Maybe he just doesn't want to be with me. But if that's the case, he really does need to stop leading me on. And that's what gives me pause in this whole theory because he is not the type of person to do that. His words and his actions are genuine, and there's no way he would continue to give me hope if there's no hope to be had.
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If that was the case then he wouldn't be broken up with you. Seriously, if he tells you he loves you, and tells you he needs you when he's with you then why are you all not "together". If you love him, tell him you want commitment. Whether that be you all actually get back "together", or you actually get engaged and them married. Give him 3-6 months to decide. If he can't make up his mind in 3-6 months then you are out. Be strong. Do not let him keep you wrapped around his finger. He will feed you just enough lines to make you believe he truly loves you. But if he truly loves you he will commit no problem (airline pilot or not).
 
skydog said:
Izzy, there is nothing particulary deep or complicated going on here. The man's profession has nothing to do with what is happening. Like my old grandpappy said: "You can always find a way to do the things that you want to do." The simple fact is that he doesn't want to be to be with you. Rather than owning up to that fact, he is trying to transfer the blame to you by saying that "you couldn't handle it." I suspect the only reason he even comes around is because you give him a free crashpad, and perhaps a little commitment-free nookie once in a while.

The man's actions speak volumes about his immaturity. He's moved in with his parents rather than getting his own place. He leaches off you rather than getting a different crashpad. He blames failure of the relationship on you rather than accept responsibility for hiw own choices. These are not the actions of a real man. A real man provides for his own needs and takes responsibility for his life.

That said, I also think that you need to do a bit of self-reflection. No strong, confident woman with character would look at a guy lie this and say "Yeah, gotta get me some of that." You should have sent this guy packing long ago, but instead you sit around hoping he throws you a few scraps.

Get a backbone, throw the guy out, and move on.
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:yeahthat: I couldn't have said it better myself. I'm sure you are a great girl Izzy, but seriously, this guy sounds like a scum bag.
 
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