Ironic you guys should mention that. I have a friend/neighbor who is going through a helluva time with her 12 year old son. He's already been arrested for assaulting a classmate. His idiot father is an ex-NYC detective and you want to know how "smart" he is? He rewards the kid with expensive clothing/toys. Doesn't see anything wrong with it either. I told my friend to haul his behind into court and ask the judge to stop visitation rights or at least have supervised ones. The kid prefers being with the father, gee ya think? The mom's already been hospitalized with anxiety attacks over this. Real bright and mature, eh? When the boy ends up dead or in Federal prison for murder, we'll all say we saw it coming. SAD!!!