Lost the Baby

amjon

amjon

Pilot and A Half (for now
I went to the hospital this morning because I didn't feel the baby move yesterday. They couldn't find heartbeat when they tried to hook me up to the monitor, so the doctor did an ultrasound and couldn't locate a heartbeat. They ordered ultrasound to do another and confirmed there was no fetal heartbeat. They are inducing me now. They said it could take a couple of days as my body really isn't ready.
 
So sorry. The hardest part for some is taking the time and giving yourself permission to grieve rather than trying to "be strong", whatever that means. We've been through it and you're welcome to PM.
 
I just am so sad and so very very sorry to hear this. There is nothing that anyone can say to make you feel any better or change this awful situation. I feel so badly for you, dear. May I suggest (and keep in mind that I do not really know you or your personal situation/circumstances), that when you are able, that if you have family or a best friend, that maybe you can go to and be with/stay with them for a while or see if they can come and stay with you. You need all the love and support that you can get right now to get try and get through this and it's not a good time to be alone. I cannot imagine the pain and suffering that you must be experiencing. Anything that any one of us is feeling just pales in comparison to what you are going through. Depending on how you feel down the road, you might want to see if there is a support group for you nearby. I just am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts.
 
A Life Aloft said:
I just am so sad and so very very sorry to hear this. There is nothing that anyone can say to make you feel any better or change this awful situation. I feel so badly for you, dear. May I suggest (and keep in mind that I do not really know you or your personal situation/circumstances), that when you are able, that if you have family or a best friend, that maybe you can go to and be with/stay with them for a while or see if they can come and stay with you. You need all the love and support that you can get right now to get try and get through this and it's not a good time to be alone. I cannot imagine the pain and suffering that you must be experiencing. Anything that any one of us is feeling just pales in comparison to what you are going through. Depending on how you feel down the road, you might want to see if there is a support group for you nearby. I just am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts.
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I have a friend here now. My aunt and uncle were here earlier and a friend from church. My parents are on the way battling holiday traffic from Virginia along with my fiance. They won't be here until late tonight.
 
There are no words for how you must feel or the sympathy we all have for you right now. We will be praying for you and your loss, if you need ANYTHING let us know. Its not hard for any of us to get there.
 
amjon said:
I have a friend here now. My aunt and uncle were here earlier and a friend from church. My parents are on the way battling holiday traffic from Virginia along with my fiance. They won't be here until late tonight.
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I am very relieved to hear this at least. You and your fiance need each other right now. Just remember that this is going to take time and that "time" is different for everyone. It takes what it takes. Don't try to control that. Please just take care of yourself and get all the support that you can and don't be alone. I know you feel like hell right now and emotionally it all feels like a huge out of control mess and overwhelming. Make sure you eat something even if you don't feel like it much and rest when you can. It's horrible right now, I understand that. I wish I could do or offer more. I am just trying not to say anything too stupid at the moment. I feel so inept in trying to convey my concern for you but I mean well. If my wife and I could just reach out and hug you and hold you right now, we would. So we are sending you our little virtual hug instead. Gerry and Sue are sending you both our love. We care.
 
So sorry. Especially this time of year (not that it makes it any better or worse in reality.) I'm glad you have friends/family with you/on their way.
 
A Life Aloft said:
I am very relieved to hear this at least. You and your fiance need each other right now. Just remember that this is going to take time and that "time" is different for everyone. It takes what it takes. Don't try to control that. Please just take care of yourself and get all the support that you can and don't be alone. I know you feel like hell right now and emotionally it all feels like a huge out of control mess and overwhelming. Make sure you eat something even if you don't feel like it much and rest when you can. It's horrible right now, I understand that. I wish I could do or offer more. I am just trying not to say anything too stupid at the moment. I feel so inept in trying to convey my concern for you but I mean well. If my wife and I could just reach out and hug you and hold you right now, we would. So we are sending you our little virtual hug instead. Gerry and Sue are sending you both our love. We care.
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We all convey what he said!
 
I'm relatively new here, but I have been following your recent posts. When I saw the title, I was hoping not to see your avatar. I'm so sorry for your loss. Soak up all the support here until your fiance and family arrive and can take over. You will be in my prayers also.
 
I am so sorry for your loss!! Is there any way you can do a d&c instead? It might be easier on you mentally and emotionally

BT so if u need anything, please let me know!
 
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