You might try practicing some slow flight at altitude.
Remember that 'slow flight' is just above a stall. It is called 'area of reverse command' because at those low speeds pitch does control airspeed and power to the altitude. Reverse from normal, which is where you are on a normal approach. You are not in the area of reverse command so you pitch too the altitude or glide path angle and control the airspeed with throttle.
Insistance on doing it the other way is because that is how you were taught and it has become comfortable, and you don't wanna change.
That is your personal preference, but professional instructors, or professionalisim itself demands that we grow with the times and changes.
It is not professional for a teacher to 'be a rebel' and go with his/her personal preference when a significant amount of evidence indicates that he/she should at least explore the possibilities of the changing environment.
I do it because my students find the ability to make more precise approaches when using power, and it doesn't require a 'change' in control input habits when redicing power on the downwind.
The change of control input only comes about when we are doing a very slow approach, usually below the published recommended speeds for a short field. Most of today's trainers have published short field approach speeds above 1.3 x Vso, so the energy is there to safely maintain glideslope with pitch even on an FAA short field.
On a real life short field, I will be about 1.2 x Vso and THEN I will pitch to airspeed. Maybe that is what drives this discussion; fear of getting behind the power curve and still trying to pitch to altitude. If that is the case, I still maintain that it is the instructor's responsibility to teach this to the student.
Yeah, that's maybe harder that opting for the easy way; 'Just always pitch to airspeed and you'll always be safe'.
Yeah, but you'll have more difficulty later when you are trying to make a precision spot landing or ILS approach.