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I think the thread is an example of where academia meets the real world -- trying to describe the weird synergies of what happens in the cockpit in textbook-friendly verbage.
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It's like trying to tell someone how to land an airplane. You can describe how to do it, give some techniques on ways to do it smoothly, and go in depth into the physics of it... but you can't teach the finess needed to really grease one in, on speed, in the touchdown zone. That takes practice and experience to get "the feel" of it.
The same applies to CRM. You can study the textbooks night and day to learn proven CRM techniques, and some building blocks to develop effective communication skills... but you won't learn to truly become effective as a crewmember in the cockpit using these principles until you are faced with situations where you need to apply them.
Over time, you won't need the building blocks anymore. Just like shedding your training wheels. You can just get in there and do it, without conscious thought.