Is the only thing you're worried about is being a little older than everybody else? Why? If you all are going to graduate at the same time, and go through the same hoops as everyone else is, why do you need a leg up just because you're 2-3 years older than them? Not dogging at all, just curious because I'm 25 and I had a "plan" when I was 18 about where I would be by the time I was 30, 40 etc...
I'll give you one piece of advice and you can take it how you want, but measuring your "status" or comparing where you are in life versus your age is never going to lead to anything productive and can really get you stressed out. You just can't put your life on a timetable because life happens, all the time. (Wow, how preachy is that? Must have been all those business development and interpersonal relationship classes from college

Look at it this way, what if all your coed grads end up getting hired right away before you for some reason at "x" regional. You on the other hand are just watching them going off to training and you're sitting there like "what the heck?" Then one day at the field, you meet "x" person who just happens to own a king air and is looking for a pilot. You get to talking, long story short, you get the gig, end up becoming great friends with the guy, you become his captain over a few years, he takes trips to the carribean all the time and invites your wife along for those weeklong trips to paradise and your life ends up better in all aspects than you ever thought it could be, even though it didn't quite go to "plan."
Just something to chew on because I know how upset I got when the first company I worked for (non-aviation) went belly up and my "plan" went out the window with it, along with a lot of my cash. Don't sweat your age man. Enjoy the ride and you'll be a lot happier.
Sorry about the preaching!
/End Soapbox
Cheers!