I had a discussion with FlyChicaga a few months ago about various stuff and one of the issues I brought up was somewhat related.
I'm on the wrong side of the clock (Good Morniiiiiiing Barthelonaaaa) so none of this may make any sense, but here goes.
A few years ago when I wasn't sure that my paycheck was even going to clear because my employer was in the grips of BK, it was very dark for me. Going to work was hard, commuting sucked and I was slowly starting to morph into that bitter, angry, negative guy that no one wants to deal with.
But I learned to find certain people out there that were also in the profession, were having a great time and started to well, hmm, I guess emotionally "sponge" off of them a little.
The list is long and I'd leave A LOT of guys out but there's many of you here that completely unbeknownst to them helped me keep my head up and assisted me in bridging those dark days until the sun began to shine again and I got through that dark tunnel of uncertainty.
This is completely cheeseball and sounds like self-serving narcissism, but Jetcareers actually saved my aviation career.
If not for some of you guys, here I'd be sitting behind a desk, doing sales, talking at the water cooler about how cool my 'other' job was before I left for stability before some pipsqueak responds with "Snarf, snarf Taylor, you were a pilot, big whoop, now go work on the Johnson report... and you're coming in this weekend too."
I'm absolutely certain that before I retire or quit to join the amateur adult movie circuit (that's a joke, folks), I'll go thru that abyss a few more times, it's just the way this and many other professions work.
So if you're in it to win it, find your "quick", man. Dark days will come and go. Find someone to help you bridge that. It might be another professional pilot up the "food chain". Or even a student pilot with unstoppable motivation. Hell, it might even be that irrepressible bum on the street who even though you've told him "No" a billion times, still raps on your car window for a couple of bucks so he can buy some malt liquor.