TexasFlyer
Living the Dream (well at least trying to)
Right...but I'm making $19,000 a year.
And I flew 16 hours last month.
Now at this point, you've already written me off, I'm aware of that; but what I'm trying to pound into your head is that this could happen to you. That's all, just a realization that your dream can become a nightmare quickly and everything you're saying goes out the window.
That's all.
Sounds like you have time for a part-time job if you only flew 16 hours last month. Are you business smart? Start a home based business. I have one where I can make your salary in a month if I chose too. Realistically if I work about 10 hours a week I make 3 times your salary. There are many businesses you can do this with. Everyone one of them is sales related (Financial Planning, Executive Recruiting, Operational Consulting, Motivational Speaking, Insurance Sales, etc.). Sounds like this might be an option for you.
Gosh, now I sound like an infomercial! Send me $39.95 and I'll supply you the book and business plan on how to be successful, how to be rich, how to make your own hours, how to run your own life and business from home! lol
Anyway, no matter what career you pick, you need to understand pay scales and how things work. It's part of being educated and making an educated decision about a career choice. You made one. Maybe you made the wrong one. That's okay. Sometimes until you do something, you just don't know. Especially if you are young. That's why most college grads do not work in thier own degree field. I stayed in Accounting only 2 years (my degree career field). So if you need a change, just work toward one. It takes time and effort, but putting a long term plan together will get you there.
And quite simply. If you make $19k per year for your whole life, that's your own fault! Stop blaming the world for it. You will get more experience, you will get more money, and you will get a better quality of life. It takes time no matter what profession you are in though to earn the respect and honor of having those benefits. So try to stay positive, even when things look pretty crappy. And hey, maybe some day we'll fly together. Or if not, maybe some day you'll be my finanical advisor or something if you end up changing to a new career. But no matter, I'm sure you'll be making at least three times your current earnings by then.
I wish you the best. And seriously, if there is anything I can do to help you, just PM me. You don't make enough money to be a personal client of mine in life coaching and/or career counseling (that's a $250/session bill), but I am always willing to help out a fellow aviator the best I can for free (time permitting).
Good luck. Best Regards.
PS - And considering how things are going in not only aviation, but also possibly across many industries in the near future, we may be able to continue this conversation in the line at the grocery that accepts food stamps and will cash our unemployment check...