Thanks for all the great input so far folks!'
Here is what has changed my plan a bit:
1) The repeated "ARE YOU SURE YOUR WIFE WILL OK?". Well no, I am not. I am also not sure it is right to put her through it even if she is.
2) "Are you sure you are not just playing a grass is greener episode?" "Its' just a job after a while" "I would sell my left testicle for $70K/yr"
How about this:
Year one--I get a PPL and high perf/Retract gear rating immediately. Fly some weekend fun trips.
Year two--I take a 4 month leave of absence from my job, after saving to compensate. I go to ATP and get IFR, MULTI, ATP, CFI, CFII tickets. Downside is the fat loan here. Basically, I'll trade the beemer for a $15k car, and use the freed up money to pay the loan. A tradeoff I have absolutely no problems with really.
Year three--Job Switch! I become a school teacher (Easy to do where I am) and take advantage of long summers, ample other time off, to supplement my income by instructing. Thus building hours as well.
Year 5-6--Take the plunge into a flying environment, if I am not happy doing what I was doing, or want more. I actually think I would prefer a corporate job more than anything, and have a few good ins. The company I work for has two well kept, but old, lears. The are purchasing a Citation this year with plans for another in a few years. Besides that, there are a few other opportunities. I could see myself content as the teacher/Flight instructor guy for some time. The income would come close if I worked at it, and my wife and I could have sex in the school janitor closet everyday. hehe just kiddin. Wanted to get some eyes open.
OK So I have one serious question:
Do I go here:
http://www.templeaero.com/ . I called the number yesterday and got a lady who immediately gave me an instructor number. I called him and he said he was Lt.COL out of Ft.Hood and was in Michigan this week. He said we would get together next week and set up a schedule. School is now Part 61 only. They have 5 aircraft (2 172s, a 150, and Arrow, and a Seneca). 3 are GPS equipped. The only real upsides are that they are local and have a decent mix of aircraft to rent in the future.
OR Do I go here:
http://www.allianceflight.com/ft/private.pilot.license.html
I would need a loan or payment plan to start this one. It is also a 1.5 hour drive from my house versus the 10 minutes for the other place. The only upside to this one is that it seems a more professionally developed school, curriculum.